The
12 Reasons You Need To Know, As To Why People Don't Get Wealthy
Anthony
Robbins (Tony Robbins) is a best selling self help author, motivational
speaker, and advisor to many world leaders, sports professionals and business
people.
Based
on the finest tools, techniques, principles and strategies Anthony Robbins
has guided millions along the path to success. For 30 years he has been
inspiring every day people on ways in which they can harness and use their
inner power to transform their lives and achieve their goals.
Anthony
Robbins has listed down 12 specific reasons he has come to observe to
be the leading causes for most people's lack of wealth.
How many of these reasons can you identify with?
1.
They never decide and really define, very specifically, what wealth
means for them. The keyword here is specifically. Can you
imagine how hard it would be to build a car or a plane without making
a blueprint or sketch drawings of it first? You have to know what
your target is before you go chasing after it.
2.
They make wealth a moving target instead of a fixed one
(this is related to point one above). Once you have your
target, fix it. Don't change it until you reach it. You must accomplish
each step, celebrate, and then set course for a new step, a new
target.
3.
They define it in a way that seems unreachable.
You only achieve what you believe. No more, no less. So you must
make it believable for you. Set goals that will make you move forward
and stretch, but not too high that even you yourself don't believe
you can.
4.
They never start. If you keep thinking about it
forever, it will forever remain in the thought level. You have to
act! Start somewhere, anywhere!. The aircraft has to first take
off before it starts to adjust course for its destination. You must
start, somewhere, anywhere, doesn't matter, just start! Act!
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5.
They never make it a must. It means marshalling
all your intent, your will, your direction, into one singular flow
that is directed towards your goal. All obstacles are viewed as
challenges to be overcome. You will meet obstacles, and so expect
it, but also expect to move forward anyway's. Use your obstacles
to develop strength and skills, don't run away. Find out how to
go past them. Find out!
6.
They don't have a realistic plan. If you want to
do something, find out how it is done from someone who has done
it before. Make a realistic plan. Copy from those who have succeeded
before you. But don't throw away your intuition. Your intuition
is extremely powerful once you learn how to listen to it with practice.
7.
If they have a realistic plan, they never follow through on the
plan. Well, if you don't follow the plan, who will?
8.
They give responsibility to others ("experts")
instead of to themselves. This way, they never really learn
how to do it, and if there are failures they never learn why the
failures happened and so they are bound to repeat them. It is a
good idea to get advice, but do it yourself. At least understand
it yourself even if you will delegate the actual doing.
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9.
They give up when they face challenges. Going through
the challenges is what has made people rich, not giving up. Look,
there are always challenges. So get used to that. You will only
get where you wish to get to if you are willing to face the challenges
along the path. All challenges are opportunities dressed in work
clothes, remember that. After the challenge is over, you will discover
the amazing fruit it held for you.
10.
They fail to conduct their lives as a business; they never
ensure that they make a profit year by year. Get a personal
finance package like Quicken or Microsoft Money. you need to have
budgets and cash flow statements for your personal finances and
your businesses. It is easy with those software packages. If you
don't keep records and track, you wont know when you are making
or losing money until it is embarrassingly too late.
11.
They allow other people's ideas to affect their decisions
unreasonably. There will always be people who don't believe
in your way, or who are pessimistic, who try to pull you down, or
whatever. And they will sometimes be your closest friends and family.
You cannot change that - they have a right to be who they are. Don't
allow other people, now or from the past, unreasonably affect your
decisions. Allow them their way, and you live your way.
12.
They don't get quality coaching. This is extremely
important! Coaching is simply getting mentored by someone who has
succeeded wildly in the area of your interest. Get coaching! Our
education system hardly equips us for real life, so don't assume
that because you went to college you are properly equipped. Hardly.
You need to keep learning. The most successful people attend seminars,
read books, join mastermind groups and clubs, find a mentor.
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